Sharing in Struggle

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Thriving in Dry Places

My original plan was to go live with my website on October 1st, day one of Mental Health Awareness week. But then there was an overwhelming need to do it sooner, God said now! After posting I couldn’t be more surprised with the overwhelming responses from loved ones, friends, co-workers, and even some I didn’t even know. The responses were of encouragement, admissions to dealing with the same thing and commending me on my bravery for speaking out. That was confirmation that the time was right. I spent a couple of months trying to build this website and wanted things perfect but who was I kidding I would’ve never been satisfied either way LOL.

I have the pleasure of being a part of this new women’s empowerment group called She Declared: W A R (willing and ready). Saturday past was the first actual meet & greet event that went very well. After having such a wonderful time who knew a mini war would be brewing for me after getting home. I got home at about 6pm, received a call at about 8:39 pm and it went like this…..

Jaime’s coworker: you need to come Jaime is having an anxiety attack at work. Me: where are y’all? Jaime’s coworker: In the restroom at work and she won’t stop crying. Me: i’m on my way.

I grabbed her medicine, got in the car and began to PRAY. It took me 7 minutes to get to her job, she came out crying hysterically. For a moment I was speechless, I just looked at her and in the back of my mind (don’t judge me i’m just being real) I was thinking this girl is crazy as hell! For one moment I allowed the STIGMA to take over me.

Me: why are you crying? what’s wrong? Her: IDK Me: just staring. Her: I miss my uncle Geroid and Momo, I’ve been thinking about them a lot lately.

My heart dropped because I knew her pain, I suffered the same pain. So, I calmed her down, went and parked my car and stayed in the parking lot until she got off @10pm.

Anyone caring for a loved one with a mental illness is definitely sharing in the suffering. The emotions we experience in witnessing their episodes are heartbreaking and tiring all at the same time. As a mother wanting to protect our children puts us in all kinds of positions but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I would gladly sit in my car for hours again, have sleepless nights to check on her every hour, and do things with her although i’m tired just to make sure she’s OK. Parents/caregivers stay prayed up, stay strong, be attentive, take nothing for granted and please take care of yourselves.

Feeling down from time to time isn’t necessarily a symptom of depression. Depression doesn’t always need a trigger. Sadness can arrive without any unpleasant event or warning.

Common depression triggers include:

  • a major life change such as a move, graduation, or a new job
  • financial troubles, including bankruptcy or debt
  • relationship issues such as tension in the family, a breakup, or a divorce (your own or a loved one’s)
  • the death of a loved one
  • giving birth to a child (this is called postpartum depression)
  • loneliness — for example, if friends and family have moved away
  • stress at work or home
  • using alcohol or drugs
  • major illness

– Hope

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This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Lee Johnson

    Hope continue to pray. I remember mom use to say God is a mind regulator. God can and will give you the strength to endure.

  2. Mona Nelson Boone

    Isaiah 53:5 He was wounded for our transgressions bruised for our iniquities the chastisement of our peace was upon Him.. but with His stripes we are healed..
    she shall be healed through the power of faith and strong soul of a parent like you..

  3. Madonna

    I love your blog! This is so therapeutic and encouraging to so many individuals.

    1. Hope Katress

      Thank you Madonna it’s actually very therapeutic for me to finally be able to express this in a safe and encouraging environment.

  4. adonisking11

    I went through similar depression for the lost of my mom and dad two sisters who died three months apart. But I trust and believe in god prayed a lot doing better but still on medication so I can relate

    1. Hope Katress

      I’m glad your doing better. We experienced my brother and grandmother dying a day apart. So I feel your pain. Prayer is definitely the key to recovery.

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